I can tell you from my Dorianmance playthrough that I didn't get some lackey running up to give me a message I just had a text window pop up when I walked into the rotunda from the main hall.
I like both the Bullmance and the Dorianmance - but they are both very much long distance relationships for a LOT of the time, no matter how deeply they love (and they deeply love the Inquisitor).